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This is Your Nation on White Privilege [18 Sep 2008|10:59am]

September 13, 2008, 2:01 pm

This is Your Nation on White Privilege 

By Tim Wise (Tim Wise is the author of White Like Me [2005] and of Speaking Treason Fluently, publishing this month.)

For those who still can't grasp the concept of white privilege, or who are constantly looking for some easy-to-understand examples of it, perhaps this list will help.

White privilege is when you can get pregnant at seventeen like Bristol Palin and everyone is quick to insist that your life and that of your family is a personal matter, and that no one has a right to judge you or your parents, because "every family has challenges," even as black and Latino families with similar "challenges" are regularly typified as irresponsible, pathological and arbiters of social decay. 

White privilege is when you can call yourself a "fuckin' redneck," like Bristol Palin's boyfriend does, and talk about how if anyone messes with you, you'll "kick their fuckin' ass," and talk about how you like to "shoot shit" for fun, and still be viewed as a responsible, all-American boy (and a great son-in-law to be) rather than a thug.

White privilege is when you can attend four different colleges in six years like Sarah Palin did (one of which you basically failed out of, then returned to after making up some coursework at a community college), and no one questions your intelligence or commitment to achievement, whereas a person of color who did this would be viewed as unfit for college, and probably someone who only got in in the first place because of affirmative action.

White privilege is when you can claim that being mayor of a town smaller than most medium-sized colleges, and then Governor of a state with about the same number of people as the lower fifth of the island of Manhattan, makes you ready to potentially be president, and people don't all piss on themselves with laughter, while being a black U.S. Senator, two-term state Senator, and constitutional law scholar, means you're "untested."

White privilege is being able to say that you support the words "under God" in the pledge of allegiance because "if it was good enough for the founding fathers, it's good enough for me," and not be immediately disqualified from holding office--since, after all, the pledge was written in the late 1800s and the "under God" part wasn't added until the 1950s--while believing that reading accused criminals and terrorists their rights (because, ya know, the Constitution, which you used to teach at a prestigious law school requires it), is a dangerous and silly idea only supported by mushy liberals.

White privilege is being able to be a gun enthusiast and not make people immediately scared of you.

White privilege is being able to have a husband who was a member of an extremist political party that wants your state to secede from the Union, and whose motto was "Alaska first," and no one questions your patriotism or that of your family, while if you're black and your spouse merely fails to come to a 9/11 memorial so she can be home with her kids on the first day of school, people immediately think she's being disrespectful.

White privilege is being able to make fun of community organizers and the work they do--like, among other things, fight for the right of women to vote, or for civil rights, or the 8-hour workday, or an end to child labor--and people think you're being pithy and tough, but if you merely question the experience of a small town mayor and 18-month governor with no foreign policy expertise beyond a class she took in college--you're somehow being mean, or even sexist.

White privilege is being able to convince white women who don't even agree with you on any substantive issue to vote for you and your running mate anyway, because all of a sudden your presence on the ticket has inspired confidence in these same white women, and made them give your party a "second look."

White privilege is being able to fire people who didn't support your political campaigns and not be accused of abusing your power or being a typical politician who engages in favoritism, while being black and merely knowing some folks from the old-line political machines in Chicago means you must be corrupt.

White privilege is being able to attend churches over the years whose pastors say that people who voted for John Kerry or merely criticize George W. Bush are going to hell, and that the U.S. is an explicitly Christian nation and the job of Christians is to bring Christian theological principles into government, and who bring in speakers who say the conflict in the Middle East is God's punishment on Jews for rejecting Jesus, and everyone can still think you're just a good church-going Christian, but if you're black and friends with a black pastor who has noted (as have Colin Powell and the U.S. Department of Defense) that terrorist attacks are often the result of U.S. foreign policy and who talks about the history of racism and its effect on black people, you're an extremist who probably hates America.

White privilege is not knowing what the Bush Doctrine is when asked by a reporter, and then people get angry at the reporter for asking you such a "trick question," while being black and merely refusing to give one-word answers to the queries of Bill O'Reilly means you're dodging the question, or trying to seem overly intellectual and nuanced.

White privilege is being able to claim your experience as a POW has anything at all to do with your fitness for president, while being black and experiencing racism is, as Sarah Palin has referred to it a "light" burden.

And finally, white privilege is the only thing that could possibly allow someone to become president when he has voted with George W. Bush 90 percent of the time, even as unemployment is skyrocketing, people are losing their homes, inflation is rising, and the U.S. is increasingly isolated from world opinion, just because white voters aren't sure about that whole "change" thing. Ya know, it's just too vague and ill-defined, unlike, say, four more years of the same, which is very concrete and certain…

White privilege is, in short, the problem.


http://www.redroom.com/blog/tim-wise/this-your-nation-white-privilege

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Spam robots, the New Dadaists? [27 Jul 2008|08:55am]

The email subject was "A far from cracking ssurprise - a dead mouse"... (yes, two Ss on surprise)... I had to open it, out of morbid curiousity. Here's what the rest said, minus a link to some foreign website:

Idea of my own about how to get to the bottom we covered

it with swell tapestries borrowed for a thought criminal!
youre a eurasian spy! Ill whisky. The taste, it pleases
me not. It is bitter. To be more explicit. It ud be a poor
tale if i free access to electronic works by freely sharing
from all the pewter and the polished oak? No one what do
you think that this unfortunate lady died most exposed to
the fire from the dip at its base. At least fairly frank.
at last in a sort of cold a nurse there asked me the time
— w poirot interrupted course the diadem and other such
ornaments are terrace. The window, it was unlatched? He
asked. Of their bodies gave them a great advantage in politics
with your profession, in which you are.

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Whoa! [30 May 2008|05:22pm]

Isolated tribe spotted in Brazil

One of South America's few remaining uncontacted indigenous tribes has been spotted and photographed on the border between Brazil and Peru.

The Brazilian government says it took the images to prove the tribe exists and help protect its land.

The pictures, taken from an aeroplane, show red-painted tribe members brandishing bows and arrows.



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Ohmygod! [09 May 2008|08:40am]

Watch these films by Isabella Rossellini.  Do it!

http://www.sundancechannel.com/greenporno

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The value of a stay-at-home parent [03 May 2008|11:05pm]

This is sexist, because it says "mom" and not "parent", but you get the idea. No wonder parents are so tired!  Speaking of which, I really need to go to bed now.

The price of a mom: $138,095

A new report assigns a salary to a stay-at-home mother, based on the jobs she does in a normal week.

By MSN Money staff

What's a mom worth?

According to one new report, $138,095 a year.

That's the figure in a report by Salary.com, which calculates the wages that would have been paid a stay-at-home mom in 2007 if she were compensated for all the elements of her "job." That total is up 3% from 2006's salary of $134,121.

Moms who have jobs outside the house would earn another $85,939 for their mothering work, beyond what they bring home in existing salary.

The job descriptions that Salary.com used to determine a mom's salary includes 10 jobs that moms do on an average day: housekeeper, day care center teacher, cook, computer operator, laundry machine operator, janitor, facilities manager, van driver, CEO and psychologist.

Plenty of overtime

In calculating a mom's wages, Salary.com looked at the "overtime" that both working and stay-at-home moms put in each week.

"Mom works multiple jobs and rarely gets a break from the action, working an average of 52 hours of overtime," said Bill Coleman, senior vice president at Salary.com, in a statement.

According to the Salary.com survey, stay-at-home moms work a 92-hour week, with more than half the workweek spent in overtime.

Working moms, meanwhile, logged more than nine hours of "overtime," with an average 49-hour "mom" work week -- on top of their full-time paying jobs.

For the Salary.com survey, more than 40,000 moms quantified their hours per job description; Salary.com benchmarked the median salaries for each job to the national median salary for each position as reported by employers.

The final salary was calculated by weighting the salaries and hours worked in each role.

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Blah! [17 Sep 2007|07:13pm]

I've been really lazy and bored today.  I'm still in my pajamas from last night! Argh.

I did give Brenya a bath a little bit ago, but that's about all I did today besides watch tv & take a nap.  Tomorrow Brenya & I have to go to the WIC office for an appointment and to get my free breastpump! Woohoo!

Wednesday we are taking Brenya to Picture People to get her one month birthday picture taken! I can't believe she's already about to be a month old. Sheesh.

She has been smiling a lot more recently, and last night I discovered she likes to sit (well, be held) upright and bounce up and down a'la "horsey" when she gets fussy.

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Jinxed! [15 Jul 2007|10:50pm]

When we saw the doctor on Monday, he said something about how I was one of his better summertime pregnancy patients- that usually in July the women as far along as I am come in to the office in tears, saying things like, "I can't do this anymore! Get this kid out of me!"  

For the most part I am still feeling all right but for the past few days I'm completely exhausted (I can't stop napping and I think I've had an hours-long nap every day this week), and for the past few days the baby has been jamming her feet into my left rib cage and it hurts worse than one might expect!  If I push on her to try and make her move it sometimes just hurts worse.

I managed to get enough energy tonight to clean up the nursery and put more things away. We sort of had it in disarray after sorting all the gifts and writing thank you cards. We washed all the clothes and organized them by size.

But yeah, as soon as my doctor said I was doing well I started feeling crappy, so I blame him.

David bought me a foot stool to use when I'm sitting in the rocking chair (which his mom bought and stained herself when she was pregnant with David) to nurse. The cool part is that it has 2 steps on it, one of which opens for storage, so it can be used in a few years when Lima Bean is big enough to need a step stool to reach the sink to wash her hands, brush her teeth, etc.

The walls have no art or decorations on them yet though!  We bought a few wood cutouts to paint with the super sweet paint colors we got at Home Depot a couple weeks ago.  I think there were 2 dogs, a sailboat, a butterfly, a couple stars... and I can't remember what else. 

I keep meaning to post some pics from the shower but the photos are on a CD in the basement and I'm too lazy to climb that many stairs right now. :)


David says he will take me to see the new Harry Potter movie, but first he wants to watch the first 4 movies again because he's only seen them once.  We watched the first one last night but we both fell asleep before it ended. Oops.

We went to a breastfeeding class Saturday morning and the instructor was very nice but sort of wacky. She's not only a lactation specialist and doula, but she also had 7 of her own children (all with the same husband)- 6 boys and one girl.  She has kids ranging from age 13 to age 30.  She's nuts!

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One down... [15 Mar 2007|06:16pm]

Well today was my last day of Drawing Seminar, so that's one thing off my giant end-of-term "to do" list. It's also my last 10-hour day for awhile, thank god!

My goal tonight is to do (or at least get a good start on) my final paper for Effective Listening. Whoooo hooooo! I know you are jealous.

If I didn't post it on here already, the blood test that they redid because they did it too early came back completely fine and normal, so that was a nice relief. I figured it would all work out but it's still nerve-wracking. It's scary enough to think about raising a healthy kid- it's terrifying to think about raising one that isn't!

This weekend will most likely consist of more homework, followed by cake-making because I offered to make Matt a cake for his birthday, which is actually today but everyone is busy with finals and whatnot so the party shall wait. And of course everyone will be too busy with their beers for a birthday party on Saturday because we are all soooOooo Irish! :)

The funny thing is that I've never been a big drinker but now that I can't have alcohol I've been wanting a beer really badly! It just sounds tasty. Maybe I should eat more bread and see if that helps.

Spring break this year is probably not going to be super exciting around the Stewart/Weigel residence. David wants to clean the basement, and I want to clean my studio area, plus we need to clean out the future nursery. We were going to take a trip to the coast but by the time we thought about it everything was booked. So we're going to go later, which is ok with me because the weather will be warmer anyway (I hope).

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New painting, not quite finished... [29 Oct 2006|10:03pm]

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[11 Aug 2006|02:26am]

Aside from the TWO HOURS it took David & I to get from Portland to Salem tonight, I had a lot of fun. My parents took us out for my birthday. We went to The Ram and I had this spicy chile salmon with tortellinis.... it was SOooooo good.  Everyone liked their food, thankfully. Mom & I split a dessert which kinda freaked my shit out. It was an ice cream dessert made to look like a baked potato. See diagram:



Here are my lovely dining companions:



Notice the smile on my mom's face is in relation to the size of the HUGE (vodka-containing) FRIGGIN DRINK next to her...  :)

I am really excited for tomorrow because I think it will be the first time anyone that isn't my mom has planned a little shindig for me. Methinks my boyfriend deserves some brownie points! 

Tomorrow I will tidy the house, clean up the weeds we pulled but had no room for in the yardwaste bucket, and give myself a pedicure & manicure. Then out to dinner with the gang, then back to the house for cake & ice cream with whomever decides to show up. :)  Yay!!

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New art from pastel drawing workshop 2 weeks ago: [11 Jul 2006|06:52pm]

Based on a 1930s theater sign:

Driver drill:

Based on a 1930s cartoon in which 2 men are about to get a massage from a very large masseur. The caption on the original (in which the men have heads) says something like, "If you fellas are in a hurry, I can handle you both at once."

Buster Keaton:

I also have another drawing but the class each chose one of their own drawings to hang in the gallery over the summer. It is a drawing of the fist/fork/tomato seen in the sky of the collage that has been my user icon on myspace for the past few weeks. 

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Hypothetically speaking... [11 Jul 2006|06:51pm]

Hypothetically speaking, you are dating someone and think it would be a nice gesture to see if any of their old friends (who live in other states) would be able to visit your own state for your significant other's birthday, as a surprise. You email some of the significant other's friends via myspace, hypothetically, even though the birthday is still months away (you've got to make sure people have time to buy airline, train, or bus tickets if they can afford to come up) and even though every response is kind, each is leaning toward negatory due to lack of funds. You find out during some of the correspondence that one of these friends, who seems very kind and sincere in her emails, actually has parents living in your own state. She then adds that she'll be in state to visit them for an upcoming holiday weekend. Some time passes, and your significant other never once mentions this friend coming to your state. You find this odd, because the significant other recently told you that you are their best friend and confidant. However, for all you know, the friend may not even have time or want to see your significant other. But you wait a few more days, seeing if this friend will be mentioned. You wait some more, and more time passes, and still no mention of this friend being in state. Finally you email the friend and she's already back in her home state after a lovely weekend with her family. Hypothetically, you are left with a multitude of options to consider, some easier to believe or understand than others:

1) The significant other didn't know that the friend was going to be here.
2) The significant other went and visited their friend on a day you weren't together, and never mentioned it.
3) The significant other didn't mention the friend because they think that you would be jealous due to the gender of the friend.
4) The significant other didn't feel like seeing the friend and didn't bother to make plans or declined to make plans.
5) The significant other is embarrassed of you and doesn't want to introduce you to any of their friends.
6) The significant other has a problem with fibbing and withheld the information for unknown reasons.
7) ....etc....

So then, the hypothetical question becomes, should you mention any of this to your significant other? And as an aside, do you really believe the significant other doesn't understand why you have trust issues, if, hypothetically, they can't even tell you an old friend is coming to town and they are going to see them (or better yet, an old friend is coming to town and they would love for you to meet them)?? It really is not a big deal and yet you can't help but wonder why there was a reason to lie (rather, withhold information) about it... hence in your mind it sort of becomes a big deal.

Discuss.

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[23 Jun 2006|01:50am]

So today David helped me take down my installation project from the spring art show. For those of you who didn't get to see it in person, here are some photos of it, along with a windows media version of the DVD that looped constantly inside the booth (the video is between 10 and 11 minutes long). Feel free to right-click and save it because I don't think I can embed files in LJ!



The booth was 4 ft. x 4 ft. x 8 ft.:




Here is a view of the booth as seen when you came through the art building foyer:




It was usually just dark enough in the hall to where you could see the glow of the television through the fabric:




Peepshow perverts:

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